Transition  – Starting Reception

Starting Reception – online information

New skills take time to learn. Practising at home will help your child move into school more easily and with confidence.

Growing independence

Taking care of themselves

  • Putting on/taking off their coat and shoes
  • Using the toilet and washing their hands
  • Getting dressed with little help, e.g. after using the toilet or doing PE
  • Using a fork/spoon and drinking from an open cup
  • Spending time away from you, learning they can be looked after by caring adults

Play, creativity and curiosity

  • Engaging in imaginative play (e.g. role play)
  • Drawing, painting, colouring and sticking
  • Sharing story books with caregivers, looking at pictures and talking about the characters
  • Exploring the world around them (e.g. looking closely at the natural world or playing safely with objects at home)

Building relationships and communicating

Being with others

  • Practicing sharing and taking turns with toys
  • Talking to them about howthey are feeling and why
  • Looking at story books together and speaking about what characters are feeling is a good way to do this
  • Beginning to recognise what others are feeling, e.g. understanding if a friend is sad
  • Encouraging them to set boundaries for themselves and others (e.g. knowing how to say ‘no’)

Communication and language

  • Singing along with songs and nursery rhymes
  • Talking happily to others about activities, experiences and the world around them
  • Showing they need help by speaking clearly (in basic English or sign language)
  • Recognising the pattern of their name (so they can find it on their coat peg or jacket)

Listening and engaging

  • Paying attention for short periods of time
  • Listening to and following simple instructions
  • Carrying on with a task even when it’s difficult and bouncing back if things go wrong

Physical development

Getting moving for at least three hours a day

  • Walking up and down steps (one foot at a time, using the wall for support)
  • Climbing, running, jumping and playing
  • Catching a large ball (most of the time)
  • Doing simple puzzles and craft activities, strengthening their grip with cutting and sticking

Healthy routines

  • Going to bed around the same time each night, waking up in time to get ready for school
  • Limiting screen time to the recommended daily amounts (see advice)
  • Eating a healthy diet and trying new foods
  • Brushing their teeth with fluoride toothpaste twice a day (you’ll need to supervise this until they are at least 7)

Transition  – Starting Secondary

Moving from Primary to Secondary School leaflet


During school holidays

Family Information Service & Local Offer 

For identifying short breaks, holiday activities and community support, which may provide respite opportunities


Online parenting and emotional wellbeing support

Triple P Parenting Programme

Evidence-based online and group parenting support, which may support behaviour management strategies at home.

The Challenging Behaviour Foundation

Provides practical strategies and guidance for supporting children with complex behavioural needs, including managing challenging behaviour in the home.

Family lives

Parenting support

Support & advice for families | NSPCC

Oxford Health CAMHS

Resources for parents

Home Start

Support for families with children under 5

OneSpace (www.onespace.org.uk/)

Parenting resource for single parents

DadTalk (www.dad.info/)

Information, resources, advice and support for dads.


Child Development

The Explainer Series – Centre for Early Childhood

Tiny Happy People

How to help your child become an independent learner | Parentkind


Routines

How to set clear, age-appropriate boundaries | Parentkind

Healthy eating – Better health Children’s healthier eating toolkit

Eating well – Primary – Food A Fact Of Life

Sleep – leaflet

Cool Milk (www.coolmilk.com)

Provide subsidised milk for school children.

Home – ERIC

Toileting


Further Support

Early Help – guide for families

Support for families who have experienced Domestic Abuse

Support for families affected by parental imprisonment

Child Bereavement Support