Transition – Starting Reception
Starting Reception – online information
New skills take time to learn. Practising at home will help your child move into school more easily and with confidence.
Growing independence
Taking care of themselves
- Putting on/taking off their coat and shoes
- Using the toilet and washing their hands
- Getting dressed with little help, e.g. after using the toilet or doing PE
- Using a fork/spoon and drinking from an open cup
- Spending time away from you, learning they can be looked after by caring adults
Play, creativity and curiosity
- Engaging in imaginative play (e.g. role play)
- Drawing, painting, colouring and sticking
- Sharing story books with caregivers, looking at pictures and talking about the characters
- Exploring the world around them (e.g. looking closely at the natural world or playing safely with objects at home)
Building relationships and communicating
Being with others
- Practicing sharing and taking turns with toys
- Talking to them about howthey are feeling and why
- Looking at story books together and speaking about what characters are feeling is a good way to do this
- Beginning to recognise what others are feeling, e.g. understanding if a friend is sad
- Encouraging them to set boundaries for themselves and others (e.g. knowing how to say ‘no’)
Communication and language
- Singing along with songs and nursery rhymes
- Talking happily to others about activities, experiences and the world around them
- Showing they need help by speaking clearly (in basic English or sign language)
- Recognising the pattern of their name (so they can find it on their coat peg or jacket)
Listening and engaging
- Paying attention for short periods of time
- Listening to and following simple instructions
- Carrying on with a task even when it’s difficult and bouncing back if things go wrong
Physical development
Getting moving for at least three hours a day
- Walking up and down steps (one foot at a time, using the wall for support)
- Climbing, running, jumping and playing
- Catching a large ball (most of the time)
- Doing simple puzzles and craft activities, strengthening their grip with cutting and sticking
Healthy routines
- Going to bed around the same time each night, waking up in time to get ready for school
- Limiting screen time to the recommended daily amounts (see advice)
- Eating a healthy diet and trying new foods
- Brushing their teeth with fluoride toothpaste twice a day (you’ll need to supervise this until they are at least 7)
Transition – Starting Secondary
Moving from Primary to Secondary School leaflet
During school holidays
Family Information Service & Local Offer
For identifying short breaks, holiday activities and community support, which may provide respite opportunities
Online parenting and emotional wellbeing support
Triple P Parenting Programme
Evidence-based online and group parenting support, which may support behaviour management strategies at home.
The Challenging Behaviour Foundation
Provides practical strategies and guidance for supporting children with complex behavioural needs, including managing challenging behaviour in the home.
Family lives
Parenting support
Support & advice for families | NSPCC
Oxford Health CAMHS
Resources for parents
Home Start
Support for families with children under 5
OneSpace (www.onespace.org.uk/)
Parenting resource for single parents
DadTalk (www.dad.info/)
Information, resources, advice and support for dads.
Child Development
The Explainer Series – Centre for Early Childhood
Tiny Happy People
How to help your child become an independent learner | Parentkind
Routines
How to set clear, age-appropriate boundaries | Parentkind
Healthy eating – Better health Children’s healthier eating toolkit
Eating well – Primary – Food A Fact Of Life
Sleep – leaflet
Cool Milk (www.coolmilk.com)
Provide subsidised milk for school children.
Home – ERIC
Toileting
Further Support
Early Help – guide for families
Support for families who have experienced Domestic Abuse
Support for families affected by parental imprisonment
Child Bereavement Support